Dating courtship and betrothal
Belts or girdles (17.190.963) were associated with fertility as well as marriage, since the touch of a particular relic of the Virgin‘s girdle was said to aid women in childbirth.The front of a niello plaque that cinched this belt features a profile portrait of an amorous couple, the woman’s arm provocatively encircling the shoulders of her lover.The boy might even tell the girl he will talk to her dad before he talks to her dad.The father will evaluate the boy, but the daughter will be strongly involved in the questions he’s asking and has a big say in the decision he’s making.
Though its author has eluded identification, the verse echoes chivalric love poetry from the late Middle Ages by Petrarch or Dante, texts well known among a broad range of social classes by the middle of the sixteenth century through musical contexts such as madrigals as well as in written form.If the girl isn’t interested in the guy, she might even tell her dad to deny him right away in order to not hurt him personally.If the boy gets permission to court, he might be allowed to ask her himself (not dad telling her). They may also decide if they need chaperoning, and when they need it. Kissing is usually a no-no during courtship, but might be ok for the engagement. The boy will need permission to propose, but if they have been courting for a year plus it’s very likely he’ll get it.In the Italian Renaissance, as now, lovers exchanged gifts.The physical embodiment of desire, these objects often display literary or symbolic representations of the pursuit or attainment of the lover.